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October 26, 2006

Gay Sex and Don Juan's

Is there such thing as a Don Juan in the gay world?

Don Juan Sex Stories : Syndrome of Don Juan

Adriana Sommer da Costa
Psychologist and Sexologist

In history man made characters, emulate aspects of our sexuality. Who hasn't heard of Don Juan sex stories, the womanizer? He, who snatches feminine hearts with refined acts of seduction and eroticism, indeed, Don Juan fits the bill all right. We're going to analyze this type of man in-depth, whose Don Juan syndrome depicts on the big-screen. A movie directed by Leven Jeremy, starring Johnny Depp and Marlon Brandon, portraits a self-proclaimed Don Juan seeking treatment for suicidal tendencies and places under the spot light a shrink-not all together sure of his own sexuality. In revealing all twists and turns of his life, Don Juan pauses influence upon the doctor's life, who in turn leaves his wife behind to deal with her own devices. Their lives changed through pipedreams of Don Juan.

So, what lies behind such a plot of seduction, mischief, and eroticism? All of which part taken in Don Juan's sex and love story life-approach. After all, to try and understand what goes on in a male mind who follows the likes of Don Juan, it's odd enough as it is.

There's a fine line drawn between the syndrome of Don Juan and the art of make out- The lately, so well established and taken in by most of us- mainly youngsters. What lies in common between both of them is lax of compromising at the end of affair. Truly, differences are just as poignant- as for Don Juan, after choosing target, takes off willingly and all fired up to take his mistress in his arms, as if she were the ultimate dating. Everything, so well-thought in advance for seductive purposes. As soon as he gets to have her, he lets himself go, nose-diving. He is all for it in a big way.

Nevertheless, once done having a go at it, task gets accomplished. Forsake is likely to follow as continuity takes no part in Don Juan's plans. So far so good, up until another target for his hawk-eyes walks in. As for today's dating there isn't such rigorous criteria as far as flirting goes. Hanker for being with someone-a woman as it were. Generally, if anything bad crops out, without holding anything back men will take a U-turn to walk off recklessly planning new adventures. Therein lies the difference between Don Juan and modern dating stories. There can be said that Don Juan in times immemorial was unbeatable for the sake of make-out.

Lets get well-clued up on the syndrome of Don Juan- regarding all that takes place apart from the proposed interpretation of movie, there bears on explicit sexually debauched in the art of seduction with compulsion as fundamental core. This so-called compulsion in the art of seduction reflects itself specifically on social and behavioral spheres. As in, there is lingering need for seduction, moved by any given context that implies in hard won achievement. Once done over using it up, he ditches it there and then. Neither attachment nor lingering desire, none whatsoever-Equally, his seemingly despise for the feelings of fancied one. Further, it gives raise to the aspects of criteria for diagnostic of a sociopath or a.k.a.- antisocial personality disorder. Don Juan gets moved by the sake of sexual pleasure and his great triumph over challenge presented. Yet, when his object of desire has prohibitive civil status, i.e.,- married woman or a friend's daughter for example. A sticking trait in his personality comes off the degree of difficulty and the raised stakes. Don Juan thrives on those factors for flavor boosting of his conquers.

Some specialists argue that the excessive focus on maternal image by Don Juan denotes underlying Oedipus complex. Given that, most of them end up living with their mothers never constitute families. If he didn't ditch his chosen one, Don Juan would beat Mr. Right hands down, knowing a lot about liking and flaws of his victims. Hadn't it be for his despisal for the victims' feelings, he would be Prince Charming. He who shows no semblance of emotional strings attached, always lands on his feet by spotting people's needs.

Don Juan as luck would have it, only obtains success in love affairs , since he seems rather unlikely to well-succeed in other aspects of life. He is in for a bumpy ride treading on his beaten track, as lone-some and without constituted family. When he begins to feel the weather in, he'd be around sixty years of age and willing to steam over twenty-something's, his hat-tricks bound to be scoffed at as due dated. From this point on, he tends to feel withdrawn up until when winds up realizing his solitude.
Don Juan would be better off in a woman's dream. Meeting up Don Juan would be synonymous of life- lasting scorn and despair in reality.

Posted by ronnie at October 26, 2006 06:52 PM

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